People who haven’t been in our shoes have no idea of the reality. They want to help but have no idea, it’s not their fault, they just don’t get it
Re sorting out clothes, I sorted out my clothes as well as his, that way I was sorting out our clothes, and kept a few things such as t shirts among my things
It Will be 5 years for me this April, I still miss him, but it does get easier to cope.
Have you considered WAY, widowed and young, maybe it would be helpful for your son to meet with other youngsters in his position
Just try and cope one day at a time, taking things at your pace, you are stronger than you think, do it your way, you can do this