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Topic: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
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adrianC
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not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
i year 2 months ago my wife died (49), 3 weeks ago i went ot the funeral of my neighbour andy (45), today i have just received a call to say a friend of mine (51) has been killed in a hit and run accident last night!
begining to think its me... I am jinxed!
28 funerals in 21 years so far.... 4 mates in 6 months one year, and all under 40
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 16:44 |
JaneR
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
Hi Adrian, sending you a big hug because I can't think of anything else to say xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 18:02 |
mandy
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
ditto.....what can we say. thinking of you,with love mandy. x
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 18:06 |
TJ
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
I'm really sorry to hear that. You're not jinxed though, so don't think that.
TJxxx
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 18:23 |
AnnieB
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
Hi Adrian
What to say but so sorry - and it is not you. Went to grave yard today to put flowers on R's plot. was amazed at how many friends have joined him there since he died - age range 25 to 96. I miss them all so much but feel lucky to have known them. Thinkig of you tonight, take care.
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 19:21 |
lozzym
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
((HUG)) Adrian
lozzym xx
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 19:26 |
Lyn
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
Hi Adrian C,
It confirms...Life is nothing but a breathe, cherish every moment, its too special to waste.
Be brave we're here for you xx
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 20:00 |
sarah
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
oh andy your not jinxed.
Big hugs
sorry there nothing else i can say.
Sarah
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 20:07 |
Irene
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
Adrian
Your not jinxed mind you I feel that way too. I have lost my darling, my Dad, both in laws, grandmother and many other close relations in 10 years. I think what have I done wrong.
Thinking of you, hugs
Irene
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 20:23 |
Lorrie
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
Adrian
You are not the only one to think this way.
My lovely MIL died then my husband was killed 5 months later, then my 33yr old next door neighbout died 10 weeks later, then another friend died in november then my aunty died in May. That's 5 closepeople in 17 months.
Can't take any more. Hope it's the last for a while. I no it's no comfort to you but just to let you know you're not alone.
Keep your chin up, life's a bitch, but you have to carry on for the people who are no longer with us. xxx
Posted on 01/07/2007 at 21:04 |
Karen
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
((adrian)) If you are jinxed then so am I... My daughter went around the world on her gap year last November, she came back early 2 weeks before Graeme died and during that time there had been 6 funerals of family and friends, 3 of them were under 19! How sad is that.
Take care, love Kazz
Posted on 02/07/2007 at 08:51 |
Lucy G
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Re: not another one! warning... sad and gloomy
Adrian
I felt like I owned the jinxed hat.
In the week after Nick died, Three service users died (not a shocker they are elderly and dying thats why they have us carers) Then one of the Carers I work with lost her son.
Mum and Dad died four weeks after Nick, another couple of service users died and another care worker lost her husband.
There is something else I think I need to say it, but I don't know if this is the place.
I shall think on it.
Lucy
Posted on 02/07/2007 at 09:58 |
